When your ex has broken up with you, you feel you have to apologise to them to get them back. However, according to emotional and relationship intelligence counsellor, John Laney, there are three things you need to do before you apologise.
The first step is to fess up to what you did wrong. You need to do this with a strong power apology, say ‘yes I cheated on you and I was wrong’. Do not give excuses and explanations. Don’t say ‘it didn’t mean anything.’ It obviously meant something to your ex or they wouldn’t have ended the relationship.
The second step is to mirror their feelings. Let them know you understand how they are feeling. You can say ‘by cheating on you, I caused you to feel betrayed, shamed, deeply hurt…’ This allows the two of you to bond on an emotional level.
The last step is to let your ex vent. Ask them how they feel about what you did or what happened, and then shut up and listen. Don’t respond or argue, let them get it off their chest.
For more advice, check out John’s video.
How To Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend – Don’t Make It Worse
Dan Dennick from getoverhernow.com provides a great explanation of the crucial tips on why you should get over your ex. Staying hung up on a girl who has moved on or stuck in a hopeless situation is a helpless spot to find yourself in. What often ends up happening is the haziness begins to set in and makes it hard to focus on, or sometimes even care about, other pursuits like work or school.
Dan also mentions that guys tend to carry around this emotional weight that saps their social life and their ability to attract other women. The first thing you need to do is stop trying to get her back so you can get over her.
Keep watching video clips with Dan Dennick, on how to get your ex back or get over her.
How To Talk To Girls For The First Time
This interesting video clip on How To Talk To Girls For The First Time, Top Tips by Darren Miller covers knowing what questions to ask from someone you just met and engage them in a conversation.
Talking to girls you met on adultfrinendfinder for the first time can be hard, and what makes it more difficult is not knowing what questions to ask. If you’ve just gone up to someone in a bar, and after your opening line you stop because you get a little nervous, don’t panic. What you can do is to ask them a general question.
It would be a lot easier to ask them a specific question, but since this is the first time you’re talking to them, and you still don’t know who they are nor have any idea what their interests are, play it safe. Ask a general question to carry on the conversation.
If you want to know more tips about talking to girls or what to talk about in a conversation follow this link for more videos at how to talk to girls